melissa77158Jan 6, 20222 min readMom's journey completed Sally Irene Didrickson, nee Ogan, passed away surrounded by family on Tuesday, July 29, 2014. Unlike in a hospital or at a birth, time of...
melissa77158Jan 6, 20228 min readMom's journey to Hospice; final stop--home hospiceAfter thanking the neurologist, I went to see my mom (and dad). By that time, it was late morning, but it felt like two days had passed...
melissa77158Jan 5, 20226 min readMom's journey to hospice; second stop--hospital floorAfter arriving at the hospital, I ran into the ER where the staff there quickly directed me to the floor where my mom had been...
melissa77158Jan 3, 20228 min readMom's journey to hospice; first stop--Emergency Room Being in the Chicago area and not local to my parents in California, I was no stranger to long phone conversations with my parents. I...
melissa77158Jan 3, 20223 min readCancer and intense gym membership packages don't mixIn going back to her life after the final chemo round in February 2014, my mom also returned to the gym. In fact, without asking me or...
melissa77158Jan 3, 20223 min readAnother diagnosis for my momHow do I now tell the story of my mom's surprise and sudden death that shouldn't have been a surprise or sudden to any of us, including...
melissa77158Jan 1, 20223 min readFunny tricks of memoryFrom my mom's 2013 cancer diagnosis to her death in July 2014, so many little and large events during that time period that have escaped...
melissa77158Jan 1, 20222 min readThe Value of MilestonesMy mom had been present, in the room, for each of my three deliveries. She worked in labor and delivery for years and her own specialty...
melissa77158Aug 7, 20215 min readWhy write? Why share?I’m writing to help anyone else who is in the same situation, who was in this situation or who will be in the near future. Taking the...
melissa77158Aug 2, 20213 min readBeing Gracious at 50! It was an admonition from my mother to her children we we left the house — Be gracious. She meant, on the most refined and formal level:...
melissa77158Aug 2, 202123 min readBE GRACIOUS -- my mom's diagnosisWith my mom’s diagnosis in June 2013, I, along with my sisters and our spouses, was faced with a truth I couldn’t deny (the first of...
melissa77158Aug 2, 20213 min readTips for navigating healthcare of your parent(s)Firstly, Healthcare in the United States is not easy. Having 'choices' is not easy. You've heard of the phrase "paralysis by analysis"...